Monday, February 23, 2026

Hagrid, Cheese and the Southwest Freeway Target

 

I was in the dairy section and I was debating cheese.

In my mind, I’m wondering why Tillamook is more expensive than Kraft. And where does the Good Day brand fit into all this? It’s suspiciously and decidedly INexpensive.

Why am I in the Southwest Freeway Target for food anyway?

Hagrid. Wikimedia photo.

Just as I approach the butter, I hear a bellowing voice. “Hey brutha? Did ya hear how they got Saddam?” I turn around to see a portly fellow, dressed in green camouflage trousers with a yellow and white polo-style shirt, sans buttons. I’d never seen him before. He was grey-haired, wore glasses and had yellowing teeth. 

He was embarrassingly nice, but loud and unconcerned. Jolly and brazen. Scattered and specific all at once. I sized him up to be around my age, but older. I think everyone’s older than me.

“The Defense Department decided to drop Viagra on Iraq when they were searching for Saddam Hussein. Finally, the little prick showed up.” He laughed like Hagrid, the bearded guy in Harry Potter.

I was caught in a scenario that required careful navigation. Either stay silent and walk away, securing my place as one of those aloof arrogant jerks I’ve spent my life despising. Or acknowledge the joke and dishonestly laugh and communicate my jovial approval.

I came up with, “good one.”  Yeah, I know.

He stretched a huge smile that made his lips look like rubber bands before sauntering away behind his cart. I saw him in frozen foods a few minutes after, and later near the pasta sauces. We did not speak again.

In the end, I went with the Tillamook.

 

Sunday, February 15, 2026

Citizen Canine

 

It was a whimper.

That’s how it starts, always. When she looks up at me, the lower parts of her brown eyes are pure white. That makes her look as though she’s wearing a saggy mask.  It’s a daily thing with its own simple protocol. I should be grateful my dog Minnie lets me know when she has to go. I live in a condo and tight spaces drive her nuts. But on this day, our afternoon walk turned odd. 

Minnie looks like "Predator," but has the intimidation factor of Michael Cera.

Our routine takes us near Sugar Land City Hall. Every day we stroll by, adjacent to the parking lot there. Minnie finds a scent intoxicating on the lawn. So much does she like how it smells that she poops everywhere. 

Minnie

I follow up with a wrinkled Target bag, the most resilient of all the grocery and superstore bags I’ve tried over the years. But on this day, Minnie curiously walked on the other side of a pedestrian pole. I didn’t notice because I was looking up doggie bibs on Amazon. By the time I looked down, she was fully tangled and making it worse by freaking out.

I decided to stay clear. Let her figure it out. And when Minnie wiggled out of her red harness, she just took off. I watched her gallop towards City Hall. I kind of just stood there. This had happened once before, and it had gotten weird. Her direction was aimed at the front stairs.

I gave chase. Unfortunately, I’m not as spry as I used to be, and never quite got up to full speed. As Minnie approached the steps, a car she ran in front of slammed on the brakes. And as I watched my dog disappear through an opened City Hall door, the driver side window rolled down.

An elderly woman with high grey hair and cat-eyed glasses with a sparkly neck chain shouted, “what a beautiful animal!” I nodded, waved and smiled and finally got to the stairs. I limped up 15 of them and got through the City Hall entrance. I figured I would just follow the mayhem. Minnie is not only not a threat, she’s actually afraid of people. Especially children. When we go to a park, she can’t have fun. And she’s prone to running away from toddlers. This place was nothing but a snow globe of threats to her. 

Where the hell is she? I don’t see anyone backing up in terror. I don’t hear screams of fear from Minnie’s menacing size and shape. Her shoulders look like glaciers and her form has been compared to a greyhound. God, I hope she didn’t run upstairs to Mayor Carol McCutcheon’s office. 

In the end, I never went through the metal detector. And I thought it unwise to ask security where my 71-pound dog was. I left the building, gathered myself and made my way home. Upon arriving at the entrance gate, I saw Minnie sitting patiently and panting. She’d had an adventure. But we didn’t discuss it. I put her red harness back on and we went back home.

Friday, February 13, 2026

Anchor Mist

One of the first news anchors I ever worked with was a chap named Ashley Webster. Ashley was from England and conveyed many of the tell-tale signs of an Englishman. He was peacefully proper. He displayed a mature attitude towards duty. And he sounded like no one else in tiny Helena, Montana, then market 210. It was an odd work of art, how a lad from London’s East End shadowed the news backdrop among the eastern slopes of the Rockies and the legends of Montana’s “Rocky Mountain Oysters” (google it).

Last time I saw him, Ashley was doing network reports for Fox Financial. He was a great guy with great news instincts. But he couldn’t walk the mist.

Early on, I tried to personally capture that thing that made news anchors seem elevated. Not just talking audience numbers. I wanted what I refer to as The Anchor Mist.

It didn’t take long for me to see how some TV news anchors, very few, seem to effortlessly exude a charisma and confidence unique to our profession as broadcast journalists. These rare news readers carry sway without really trying, the kind of people who simply have that dignified way of carrying themselves. They are unafraid and always willing to engage in an array of debate scenarios, and they’re the best at them. They pursue subjects with the verbal aggression that might make weaker stomachs queasy.

I first recognized this syndrome when I worked in Las Vegas, with Gary Waddell. He was the main anchor at KLAS when I anchored mornings there in the early 1990s. Even as we’d whizz by his billboards on group motorcycle trips to Sunday breakfast, Gary (who rode a Harley Ultra) never took himself too seriously. He was really smart. But he didn’t advertise it.

Later, here in Houston, I met perhaps the best example yet. I spoke only briefly with anchor Sylvan Rodriguez on a few occasions and finally understood why he commanded such Houston market respect. Sylvan seemed to understand people really well, and that gave him The Mist. The fact is, pros like Sylvan can seemingly impress people not only on air, but every day during the afternoon meetings and newscast postmortem.

These are the people that everyone listens to. Coworkers will often follow them for drinks every Friday after the 10 p.m. kicker. Others ask them to record cell phone greetings.

The way these professionals approach people and subjects can be subtle and remarkably effective, like a soothing, calming mist. Their grace isn’t particularly obvious or easily identifiable. But The Mist feels good. It’s not distracting. It can tingle your spine, but it won’t knock you over. A good mist is always refreshing. And people are usually drawn to it. An anchor with Anchor Mist is always controlled. Dignified. Elegant. Modern day examples of Houston mist include Mia Gradney and Ilona Carson.

 I worked with Mia when she interned. Even and especially then, as an eager collegiate ripping scripts and putting them in order, she displayed obvious symptoms of The Mist. Professional and attentive to detail. She honed it at Channel 39 and uses it well now at KHOU. Ilona Carson is simply the best news anchor in the entire market, hands down. Lots of market observers are still scratching their heads on why 13 ever let her go. She’s got big skills. Unbendable, like you want in a truth teller. Warm enough to sell funnier, happier stories that look awkward when introduced by harder-edged anchor personalities.

Granted, much has changed since I was walked to the exits 15 years ago. But solid and effective communication has not. More and more, less experienced, less engaging, less credible people are appearing on TV and computer screens mispronouncing words and playing the facts like a carnival shell game.

Then again, what the hell do I know? I only anchored weekends. I could feel it. But I later realized I could never, ever embody The Mist.

 


Tuesday, February 10, 2026

Barber

I’ve not always had great friendships with barbers. And as I waited for a recent haircut, certain things began to dawn on me and prompted more than a few questions.

My first ever haircut was an absolute disaster. For some reason, I vomited on the poor guy, which should tell you all you need to know about how I process stress. It was a local barber close to my home in a neighborhood known as Forest Hills. I remember it being dreadful. Cleanup required coordinated efforts to manage my discharge, and a trip to the store for air freshener. My mom was appalled, but smiled, nonetheless.

And my fears of the barbershop pole didn’t improve in the 6th grade when another guy accidentally sliced my ear. I’d arrived at Fisherman’s Wharf at 5 a.m. that day to board a big boat and embark on a five-hour fishing trip. The early hour, combined with the rough San Francisco Bay waters seemed to slow me, and I later fell asleep in the chair. When I nodded off, the scissors clipped the top of my right ear. My mom was appalled, but smiled, nonetheless.

The barbers of my youth were not at all that distinctive; mostly older gentlemen with graying hair, spectacles and a short-sleeved shirt made of some strange paper-like microfiber. These men were usually soft spoken. They smiled a lot. Many had red noses due to scotch cocktails after the day’s last cleaning.

The barbershops were always straight forward. Mine had the typical checkered floor and that mysterious blue-green potion where the combs lived in a clear jar. I never knew what that stuff was. And I never asked.

Fast forward to today. My Sugar Land spot still holds a blue and red pole hanging on an arm connected to the storefront. Inside, the configuration is still the same. But today’s barbershops have more chairs on average than yesteryear. Gone is the one- or two-chair shop. Mine has five and they’re all filled as I approach. My 80s barber would never dream of blasting music during procedures. The owner in Sugar Land is a 32-year-old kid from Richmond, and he cranks Zeppelin. I’ve asked him if that’s a strategy to attract older customers with deeper pockets. He assures me it is not.

As I ease down on a leather sofa to wait my turn, it occurred to me that walk-in appointments are rare with online booking. I wonder if anyone under 40 has ever called to make an appointment. I commented on how much this exiting client looks like Nate Bargatze. No one finds it amusing, highlighting, I later noticed, how little conversation exists between client and cutter. Today’s guys seem more focused on the task and less likely to enjoy conversation. They make an effort, but it’s a lie. I’m twice their age, and weight. What the hell do we have in common?

I’m also perplexed why all clients are faced away from the mirrors, and I suspect it’s a new trend to keep clients from nitpicking before the job is done. Or maybe to build up the drama. My guy takes about 30 minutes. It’s a good job, and I leave happy. I briefly ask him why he faces his customers away from the mirrors as he works. He says it’s so he can more easily access his tools on the shelf under the glass. Makes sense. I’ve concluded that the experience today is different from my memories, but not by much. I guess like furniture, hot tea and baseball, there’s not a lot of room to change the formula. By the way, I paid $57 for my recent trim.  $5 used to cover it.


wAIsted Dreams

 









“See the men paint their faces and cry

(Like some girls) Like some girl, it makes you wonder why

City life, sure it’s cool, but it cuts like a knife, it's your life

So, forget all that you see

It's not reality, it's just a fantasy”

 - Aldo Nova “Fantasy “


Scarlett Johansson is pissed! So is Joesph Gordon-Levitt, Cate Blanchett and 700 of their friends. All are actively calling for a leash on Artificial Intelligence. They don’t like how the new technology is replicating their images to sell stuff. And they really don’t like how the rights to their images are getting sold downstream. 

For their part, bigger platforms are taking notice. YouTube for example, is requiring content creators to notify ahead of time their use of AI. YouTube has also chosen to flag AI videos and explore software that can detect unauthorized use of the technology. 

I have no idea why it has landed this way, but I find myself turning to YouTube more and more as an aspirational entertainment destination. When I was a kid, there were three main television networks from which to choose. And if you were lucky, some obscure independent TV station that only defuzzed when the wind was blowing just right.

And so, it astonishes me, the number of options available to airwave originalists in this decade of digital decadence. The sheer tonnage of choices online has made anything offline a below market risk. Yes, the world seems to be changing faster than a kid just home from church. Take a guy named Roberto Lopes Jr., a self-described “designer, architect, creative director and professor of creativity and AI”.

His work on@roblop_experience caught my eye because it married AI (which I know nothing about) to The Beatles (with whom I’m familiar.) 

If you are over 40 and have only a limited, if not casual, relationship to new technologies, you might be as clueless as I am about AI. Then again, I used to think Tiramisu was a Puerto Rican folk dance when I first heard the term. In fact, I was so sure that other people were as clueless as me about AI that I initiated my own private survey. So, I set up shop outside a local Kroger store and asked out loud. “What IS AI?” 

“It’s a computer thing that creates stories and other things”, 67-year-old William told me. “It’s like a search engine.”

“Oh man! That’s technology that can mess people up,” said Lewis, a 28-year-old delivery man said.

“It’s something used to spread lies about people like Trump,” 38- year-old Linda feared.

“Is there anything good about it?”, I asked. “Probably not”.

Even my own 29-year-old son envisions an eventual machine revolt spurred by technology, like in The Terminator. Then again, I once had to explain the difference between butter and margarine to him at an age when I would’ve thought it was obvious.

Dictionary.com defines artificial Intelligence thusly: “the capacity of a computer, robot, programmed device, or software application to perform operations and tasks analogous to learning and decision-making in humans, such as speech recognition or question answering.” What that definition does NOT include is the human fear element. And, per usual, I can’t help but wonder how much fear has contributed to impression.

A man named Geoffrey Hinton is considered the “godfather of AI.” Hinton has regretted his life’s work because of how he says AI could become smarter than us. A couple of years ago, he quit Google to focus full time on warning the world. And as I think we’ve already seen, many others share his fears. A lack of transparency on how AI makes its conclusions and how it uses whatever input to create bias is kept under strict proprietary lock and key. Predictions are that robots will replace workers. And there’s the perceived threat to widespread privacy and technology. For example, China’s facial recognition could gather enough data to monitor peoples’ relationships and political views.

I don’t want to sound snarky, but I saw a whole new generation born upon the art world when I saw the works of Roberto Lopes Jr. the other day. 

So, it comes to this for me. AI is a strange new cuisine with an untested flavor and an undefinable consistency. It is full of both bad calories and good. The results of its nourishment may make some people healthier and others sick. I’m not sure it’s a taste that will sweep the world away or take our lives to new heights. But for now, this dish is energizing us in unexpected and unexplainable ways. It’s gonna take a while to see how it affects our aggregate digestion. Meantime, consume at your own risk.


Hagrid, Cheese and the Southwest Freeway Target

  I was in the dairy section and I was debating cheese. In my mind, I’m wondering why Tillamook is more expensive than Kraft. And where do...